Saturday, September 13, 2008

It's Over

I think it's over between my new boyfriend and me. Out of everything I've been through with men, I know my instincts have never steered me wrong. I thought I could trust this new guy of mine but after the lack of affection, planning and some other factors on his part, I feel it's over. It all began yesterday afternoon when what I thought was a nice gesture had suddenly turned into deceit. He called me from his work to tell me he had made hotel reservations for us, so that we could spend some quality time together because heaven-forbid he invites me to his place (25 minutes away).
He called me twice while I was getting ready so I called him as I was leaving, only to have him pick up the phone awaking from his nap. Turned out he never made any reservation at all as he had told me he had. He didn't even wear the proper attire to the club we usually go to where he said we would probably spend some time at if we wanted. Every time we plan to meet up he has always been late, I can understand there was an accident last night, but he has been late the other times we had planned to meet up. So when we finally made it over to his hotel of choice it looked like some ghetto hotel/motel that was connected to a Waffle House (AKA Awful House). I felt I deserved better and acted a bit like a spoiled-brat and backed my car up and took off out of that roach hotel parking lot. Out of all the hotels there it seems as if he picked the cheapest one, which was so not cute/romantic or a place where I'd want to spend quality time with someone (it's actually the 4th cheapest hotel on hotels.com). My Father is president for a government business, I can't be up in a place like that, it's bad enough with him he never picks up my bar tab (with my 1 drink of $5 on the tab usually) and he never stops me from paying when we go to dinner (only $21.00 last night).

Don't preach to me how you're some "southern gentlemen" when you're too slow to get the door for me so I'd rather do it myself just as my single-self has been doing (like what do I need you for anyway?).